Dear {{first_name}}, Ya’akov stood in his father’s room giving him food that his mother, Rivkah, had prepared. Ya’akov was wearing his brother’s clothing and had fur on his arms to mimic his brother’s hairiness. The scent, the feel and the food all seemed to be from Esav but the voice was the voice of Ya’akov. Yitzchak said that “the voice was the voice of Ya’akov and the hands were the hands of Esav.” (Bereshit 27:22) This scene is the most overt episode of impersonation in the Torah, but it is far from the only one: Sarah/Sarai was claimed to have been Avraham/Avram’s sister and not his wife; Rivka was claimed to have been Yitzhak’s sister and not his wife; Yosef’s brothers brought his jacket to their father to convince him that he was dead; Yosef was obscured from his brothers because he looked like an Egyptian… there are so many examples. The act of concealing one’s identity is sometimes used for good and at other times for evil.
In focusing on this week’s obfuscation, Ya’akov posing as his brother, we find it to be a complicated matter in that he was seeking to take something that should’ve belonged to his brother. At the same time, there is an apparent plan for this to happen and for one reason or another, God was not offended by this and did not disapprove. Today we have a complicated issue in our community in that people are coming forward and using their being Jewish as their bona fide proof that they speak on our behalf. Rabbis are taking this another step and are asserting that, as rabbis, they speak for the Jews. The problem is that what they are saying is both true and false; they are Jewish and are speaking for a Jew and for a segment of our population, but they do not speak for our community as a whole. In all fairness, nobody actually speaks for all Jewish people. At the same time there is a community that is more unified than at any time in recent history and has chosen to have a rather unified voice.
On Tuesday Ayelet chose to spend her 15th birthday with 290,000 people who gathered to show our uniformity and nuanced points of view in our love for and support of the State of Israel (Thankfully she allowed Carrie and I to accompany her on this most critical and important of trips). One of the speakers from before the actual rally began was Congressman Ritchie Torres of the Bronx in New York. He said: “Not everyone calling for a ceasefire wants Israel to cease to exist. But everyone who wants Israel to cease to exist is calling for a ceasefire.” Those words should be screamed from the rooftop. I am not a war monger and I do not like seeing innocent civilians being caught in the crossfire. I mourn the loss of life of those who are innocent, but I do not want a cease fire because Israel cannot stop until the mission is completed. If Israel is to survive for another 75 years and beyond, then this war cannot end without Hamas being driven from Gaza and from the world. Israel and the Israeli people cannot be asked to accept homicidal monsters on their border. Anyone who asserts that as a Jew or as a rabbi that they speak on behalf of us and our leadership is obscuring the truth. Anyone who asserts that Israel is not bringing honor to the Jewish people in the way in which it is conducting this war is not speaking on our behalf… they are speaking only for themselves.
Jews and rabbis are more than welcome to disagree and to have issues with our Homeland and they are within their rights and within the Jewish tradition of nuance and deep critical analysis. But they are not the Jewish community and they are not our leaders. They are a fringe and they have no right to claim to be something that they are not. They have no right to make it appear that Jews are against this or that and that Israel is acting against Jewish tradition and values. I am tired of writing these articles and giving these sermons but I will not stop. I will not stop until all hostages are back home. I will not stop so long as Hamas continues to terrorize our people. I will not stop so long as bigots and anti-Semites spread lies and ugliness and so long as Jews are not given the same respect that all people in the world enjoy. I refuse to wear a mask or a disguise. I refuse to back down from where I am as an unapologetic supporter of Israel and the Jewish people. I ask that those who hide behind their masks as representing our people take their masks off. Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Hearshen
Candlelighting time on November 17 is 5:15 pm.
THIS SUNDAY!
Bring your family, friends, neighbors,
kids & grandkids. Fun for all ages!
BIRTHDAYS
Shabbat Corinne Falkenstein Joshua Tarica
Sunday Hayley Girsky Joel Arogeti Larry Kaplan
Monday Bela Akbasheva
Tuesday Diane Benatar Hal Rabinowitz Ilana Lavine Maurice Cohen
Wednesday Erica Amato Krisel
Thursday Judah Krisel
ANNIVERSARIES Sunday Carly and Ilan Reisman
Monday Abo and Esya Akbashev
Wednesday Donald J. and Lynn Pascale
Thursday Mark and Judy Bernath
Friday Abraham and Diane Tache Steven and Shauna Grosswald
Meldados
Shabbat Lillian Mendelson
Sunday Berta Amuyeva Nodov Sverdlov
Tuesday George Birnbaum Bertha Reisch
Wednesday Joe Cohen Sophie Gaba
Thursday Mel Cohen Maria Shabatayeva Friday Morris Segall
Shabbat Together Shabbat, Apr 12th 10:30a to 11:30a Join us for our new Kavanagh Minyan & Children's Services the second Saturday each month. Following these services, we'll join the group in the Sanctuary for Rabbi Hearshen's sermon followed by Kiddush lunch.
It’s as easy as:
Inviting your friends and family for Shabbat Dinner, Taking a few photos, Sharing the photos with OVS & One Table And... Receiving a stipend for each person at your dinner.
Passover Picnic & a Walk in the Park Tuesday, Apr 15th 11:30a to 1:00p Bring your own picnic lunch and catch up your OVS friends. Join us for a walk along the boardwalk after we eat.
Exact location will be emailed prior to the picnic. Free of charge.
Chesed Team Three B'S April Sunday, Apr 27th 3:00p to 4:00p Join us as we take our Three B's program to Berman Commons. Do a Mitzvah and spend time with the residents. We’ll bring them a taste of OVS and play bingo.
Children are welcome when accompanied by an adult.
Sephardic Dinner to Go Thursday, May 8th 2:00p to 4:00p Dinner To Go includes 1 dozen burekas (potato, spinach or rice, while supplies last), 1 quart Avas (tomato based white bean soup), 1 quart rice, tossed garden salad and 6 biscochos. Pre-orders only by Monday, May 5.
Boyos Class Sunday, May 25th 1:00p to 3:00p Join Dan Maslia for his famous Boyos Class. One person per household only. First come, first served. Maximum 20 participants. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to make this special Sephardic dish.
Building Blocks Sunday School 2025-2026 Sunday, Aug 17th 9:00a to 12:00p Building Blocks Sunday School at Congregation Or VeShalom is for children ages 2 - 12. Areas of focus include prayer, Jewish holidays, Jewish values, modern Hebrew, Hebrew reading, Israel, and Sephardic Jewish culture.
