Last week I was in Israel trying to help, and to bear witness to the lives being lived. My last stop in Israel was to drop off a present for a congregant at their family’s home in Modi’in. I’d never been to this town before and I can attest to it being a beautiful one filled with lovely neighborhoods and modern amenities. When I was approaching the city, it dawned on me I was a week too early to be in this city.
The city of Modi’in was purposely built in the 1990s on the site of what we traditionally believe to be the home city of the Maccabees and thus it’s the birthplace of Hanukkah (figuratively speaking). The world in the days of the Maccabees, and the world today, don’t seem to be all that different and that’s a tragedy beyond words. When we teach the story of Hanukkah, we often talk about the external forces that sought to destroy us. It’s another example of the ancient hatred (anti-Semitism) our people have continuously suffered and our ability to overcome this hatred. In this telling of the story, the light we bring into the world during Hanukkah is a force to overcome the darkness of hatred and bigotry.
In a more historical and authoritative retelling of the events, we find a much more nuanced story of Jewish assimilation and a battle between Jews who wanted a more pure and traditional observance (Maccabees/Hasmoneans), and those who wanted to assimilate and more fully fit in to the Greek culture around them (Hellenists). This story of the battle depicts a civil war that was part of the struggle between our ancestors and the Assyrian Greeks. This story adds greater nuance to the light we bring into the world during the darkest time of the year, and that we have an obligation to reclaim that which is ours. We have an obligation to remain true to our past, present and future. We must fight against assimilation and “rededicate” (Hanukkah means dedication) ourselves to our people, our heritage and our religion.
Both these narratives are of the utmost importance right now. One doesn’t need to be a scholar to see the fires of anti-Semitism are strengthening and growing in their intensity. We’ve reached a global epidemic we haven’t experienced in modern times and it’s not only scary, it’s intensely disheartening. We’re finding ourselves on the receiving end of ugliness and malicious words and actions and we cannot find the light at the end of the tunnel. At the same time, we watched over the years as Jewish observance has diminished more and more each day. All too often, our commitments to our religion have been placed on the back burner and we have a lot of work to do.
While I was in Israel, I witnessed and participated in things that brought light and hope to my fears. The anti-Semitism we’re experiencing here in the US and, in fact, all over the world, is constantly on the minds of our brothers and sisters in Israel. They’re aware of the pain and suffering we’re enduring. While it pales in comparison to the dangers and fears they’re living with, they do see us all as one people fighting together. It’s not like the civil war in the days of the Maccabees. We’re a unified people with an intense focus on our purpose and determination to achieve what’s unparalleled.
I had the opportunity to visit officers and soldiers in a hospital and to visit soldiers on a military base to help put up mezuzot. The desire to have a connection with our faith and religious rituals is something we couldn’t have predicted on October 6, 2023. One could not have imagined the strong desire for our people to connect with our faith in such numbers, and yet it’s a reality. None of this should be surprising. Since the days after the Maccabees, the Jewish people have always been most unified at moments of crisis. We’ve found over the generations the best way to bring us together is to shower us with hatred. This isn’t a good thing, but it’s true. We’re unified most when we perceive an existential threat and that’s certainly the case at this time. Likewise, it’s important to recognize many people find themselves moving towards religion and faith when their lives are in danger, or when the world seems to be spinning out of control. When we’re lowest, our faith tends to grow even greater.
I’ve noticed that saying Kaddish for my father this year has pushed me to be even more connected to my observance and faith and I was already deeply committed. It’s also critical to recognize all of this is an essential tool we have as a people to combat their hatred and our religious backsliding. Every book written on anti-Semitism in modern times asks the question of what the Jew and the Jewish community can do to fight against the bigotry. Each one comes to the clear conclusion we must redouble our efforts to be committed to our Judaism in addition to our Jewish people and heritage. We must see rededication (there is that Hanukkah word again) to our Jewish practices is the ultimate way to beat the haters at their own game. When we demonstrate we care about who we are and we take our tradition and religion seriously, it sucks the air out of their balloons of hate.
Tonight is the first night of Hanukkah and thus we’ll each place the first candle (or oil lamp) on the right side of our Hanukiyas (menorahs) and say the three blessings (don’t forget She’chechyanu) as close to nightfall as possible. Tonight, we’ll place a Hanukiya in our windows to publicize the miracle and to publicize our identity and our commitments. Tonight, we’ll eat foods fired in oil and we’ll celebrate our heritage. I invite everyone to light an additional light, or an additional Hanukiya, in honor of our brothers and sisters who remain in the darkness of captivity and cannot celebrate our holiday with their loved ones.
Finally, anyone who wants to know what I’d like as a gift for Hanukkah, I want: a world where people can unequivocally state hatred of Jews is wrong, rape is rape and it’s evil, and kidnapping children, women, men and the elderly is despicable. That we, the Jewish people, have a right to exist and to live as Jews in our ancestral homeland. That’s all I want. Or, as I’ve seen stated in many Facebook posts, “You’re wondering what to get me for Hanukkah, I’m really into unequivocal condemnations of antisemitism”.
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BIRTHDAYS
Shabbat Elaine Leeds Marcy Franco
Thursday Albert Cohen Josh Hearshen
Friday Pescha Penso
ANNIVERSARIES Thursday Robert M. and Sara Franco
Meldados
Shabbat Eli David Levy Morris Capouano
Tuesday Malka Profis Marcus Firestone Hayim Unatayev
Thursday Asa bat Yaffa
Friday Bennie Shemaria Sarah Israel Leslie Weintraub Bess Handmacher Nelda Silver
FunRaising Trivia Night Motzei Shabbat, Nov 23rd 7:00p to 9:00p Hosted by Michelle Rich, Debbie Cohen Sobel & Leah Kaplan. Featuring NYC Trivia Host Gabe Rich. An Italian vegetarian dinner will be served. All proceeds to benefit Congregation Or VeShalom.
Community Service Projects Thanksgiving 2024 Sunday, Nov 24th 9:00a to 1:00p OVS is partnering with JF&CS to prepare Thanksgiving meals for people living in group housing and care packages for care givers.
Learn to Chant the Torah Wednesday, Dec 4th 7:00p to 9:00p Learn to chant the Torah with Rabbi Gutierrez. This series begins on Tuesday, November 12 through January. There will be no classes Thanksgiving week or during winter break. RSVP requested. Class is offered free of charge.
Town Brookhaven Holiday Kickoff Thursday, Dec 5th 6:00p to 8:30p Join Rabbi Hearshen, friends & family from OVS and the greater community of Brookhaven for this special event. There will be a Giant Hanukkiah, Dance & Musical Performances, Merchant Specials, Character Meet & Greet, and More. No RSVP necessary. Be sure to stop by the OVS table for some goodies!
Cash Raffle 2024 Sunday, Dec 8th 11:00a to 4:00p Enter to win our 50/50 cash raffle. Winner will be drawn at the end of the Sisterhood Bazaar on Sunday, December 8. You do not have to be present to win.
Hanukkah Bazaar and Food Festival Sunday, Dec 8th 11:00a to 4:00p The OVS Sisterhood Hanukkah Bazaar & Food Festival will feature food, shopping and lots of games and activities for children.
Comedy Night FunRaiser Motzei Shabbat, Dec 14th 7:30p to 10:30p Join us for a fun night of comedy featuring our very own Louis Galanti & Lily Maslia providing opening comedy sets for Atlanta legend Jerry Farber. All proceeds to benefit OVS.
Annual General Membership Meeting Sunday, Dec 15th 10:00a to 11:30a The meeting this year is being offered in person and on Zoom. We need a quorum to vote at the Meeting. Please make every effort to attend.