In 1991, I was called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah for Parshat Miketz, and this Shabbat I’ll be reading Haftara at services for the anniversary of my Bar Mitzvah. I’ll spare all of you the math; I’m turning 45 years old today. When I was a kid, we belonged to a non-traditional synagogue that identified as Reform and as such I didn’t chant my haftara, I read it in English. My Torah reading consisted of a few sentences that were not chanted. I’ve tried each year to read to make up for that one day. It was on the day of my Bar Mitzvah that the presiding officer of the synagogue said: “who knows, maybe you’ll become a rabbi…” So, you can all blame her for my being who I am… I don’t recall my speech that day and I don’t have any copies since I bought my first real computer with my money from the Bar Mitzvah.
Parshat Miketz is about the dreams of Pharaoh and the interpretation of those dreams by the recently freed Joseph. It’s about his setting up a system through which Egypt was saved during the years of famine, which helped the neighboring peoples as well. We learn about Joseph’s brothers coming to Egypt and standing before him while not knowing it was him. We learn about his testing them and about the reunion, along with his being reunited with his dad.
Joseph wasn’t a very good brother when he lived with his family. Joseph’s brothers weren’t exactly good either and there was a lot of wrongdoing that had gone around. When Joseph revealed himself to his brothers, they were beyond scared. They feared Joseph sought vengeance towards them. They feared he wished to get even. He hugged them and forgave them… that was his response. Forgiveness is a beautiful gift and a wonderful goal. We should all look to be forgiven and to be forgiving. We should all find room in our hearts to look for forgiveness and grant it as well.
My senior seminar course in college was about conflict resolution and forgiveness. I was “the Jew” in the class. I suppose there were other Jewish students, but I was the one who wore my Jewish identity on my sleeve and saw the world through Jewish eyes. I was appalled by the course and the class was disappointed in my response. The course featured numerous examples of “turning the other cheek” which is a patently Christian value and inherently not Jewish. I couldn’t endure a world in post-Apartheid South Africa where the murderous Afrikaner Nationalists were not punished for their actions and simply “admitted” to what they had done during the years of Apartheid. I repeatedly proclaimed that the world needs true actions and not just words and that apologies needed to be backed up with verifiable behaviors.
This week, the Dekalb County Board of Commissioners met to consider a declaration that would call for an immediate cease fire in Israel. While this declaration is meaningless since I’m pretty sure neither side cares one bit about what’s said in Dekalb County, it’s meaningful in terms of the struggle we’re having here in America. As more and more people seem to be throwing their support around those who would seek our destruction, it’s important we’re aware of and fight against these voices. I was unable to attend the hearing, but I did watch the video of the two speakers at the meeting. The person who spoke on behalf of the call for the cease fire had the audacity to speak about Jewish power and money being the reason people are too scared to stand up against us and Israel. She employed some of the oldest antisemitic tropes and even claimed antisemitism isn’t about Jews but about anyone from the Middle East. No vote was held this week and the issue was tabled.
Judaism is a religion of deed and creed. It’s not enough to merely say one is sorry… rather one must appease the aggrieved party. It’s not enough to say words without backing them up with real world actions proving the veracity of your repentant intentions. The world wants the Jewish people to move on and accept a cease fire. This is wrong. It pains me greatly to argue for war and against a cessation of hostilities. I don’t like war. I don’t like seeing people die. But the world cannot demand we live with people hellbent on our destruction who have proven their evil time and again. The world cannot demand we lay down our arms and leave a murderous regime in place that seeks the destruction of our homeland, our nation, and our people.
Every call for a cease fire is a call for the eventual continuation of the attempted destruction of our people and our state. Every call for a cease fire accepts it’s okay to leave the culprits of mass-murder, rape, and torture free and able to do it again. Every call for a cease fire is an acceptance of the kidnapping of men, women and children and their being held against their will in conditions unfit for the living. Every call for a cease fire is a call to return to a world of October 6 but knowing October 7 happened and will happen again. It’s simply immoral to ask the State of Israel and the Jewish people to lay down their arms and accept any of this. Israel must finish this mission and must secure a future of security and peace for their people and thus for the Palestinian people as well.
Joseph found it in his heart to forgive his brothers for trying to kill him, throwing him in a pit, selling him into slavery and so much more. His brothers found it in their hearts to move forward with a brother who tormented them and was unfairly favored their whole lives. But in both of these cases, the ability to move forward only came after verifiable evidence of change was presented. This ability to move forward came because the people had in fact changed and didn’t merely pay lip service through apologizing. This ability to move forward is something we should all aspire to live up to, but only when we’re willing to see that words are only words while words backed up with actions are what matter most. Our world has a lot of changing to do. Our world has a lot of growing to do. Our world isn’t ready to end this conflict because the enemy isn’t ready to change and accept us as we are and live side by side in the world with us.
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Security Matching Grant
There are only 2 weeks left to take advantage of our Security Fund Matching Grant.
OVS needs you now more than ever! Security needs have increased dramatically with the war in Israel and the rise in anti-semitism and we are asking each family to make a meaningful contribution to our Security Fund. We are over half way to our goal of $25,000. Make your donation by December 31, 2023 and it will be matched dollar for dollar by an anonymous donor!
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Shabbat Greeters Needed
Be a Shabbat Greeter on Saturday mornings during services and show how warm and welcoming OVS is!
Volunteers will greet members and guests, hand out prayerbooks, help people find seats, and help our security team as an extra set of eyes and ears. Arrival time is between 8:45 - 9:00 am each Shabbat morning.
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BIRTHDAYS
Shabbat Aaron Carter Franco
Sunday Layla Micah Benator
Monday Erin Wasileski
Wednesday Alan B. Cristal Leo Benator Martin Maslia
Thursday Levi Oppenheimer Lilly Franco Antebi
Friday Vicki Grosswald
ANNIVERSARIES Friday Martin and Doris Goldstein
Meldados
Shabbat Terry Shimizu David Clark
Sunday Matilda Shemaria Judy Rubnitz
Monday Jerome Merlin Harry Deaner Beverly Gleichman Morris Baum
Tuesday Elias Tache Jacob Aaron Sylvia Rothstein
Wednesday Pearl Graetz Vida Rahel Franco Rachel Amato Franco Charlie Franco Joe Tarica
Friday Saundra Russo Bette Papouchado Taranto Lou Mae Cohen Rebecca Goldstein Cohen Sam Penso Morris Greenberg Arthur Feinstein Isidoro Palatchi
FunRaising Trivia Night Motzei Shabbat, Nov 23rd 7:00p to 9:00p Hosted by Michelle Rich, Debbie Cohen Sobel & Leah Kaplan. Featuring NYC Trivia Host Gabe Rich. An Italian vegetarian dinner will be served. All proceeds to benefit Congregation Or VeShalom.
Community Service Projects Thanksgiving 2024 Sunday, Nov 24th 9:00a to 1:00p OVS is partnering with JF&CS to prepare Thanksgiving meals for people living in group housing and care packages for care givers.
Learn to Chant the Torah Wednesday, Dec 4th 7:00p to 9:00p Learn to chant the Torah with Rabbi Gutierrez. This series begins on Tuesday, November 12 through January. There will be no classes Thanksgiving week or during winter break. RSVP requested. Class is offered free of charge.
Town Brookhaven Holiday Kickoff Thursday, Dec 5th 6:00p to 8:30p Join Rabbi Hearshen, friends & family from OVS and the greater community of Brookhaven for this special event. There will be a Giant Hanukkiah, Dance & Musical Performances, Merchant Specials, Character Meet & Greet, and More. No RSVP necessary. Be sure to stop by the OVS table for some goodies!
Cash Raffle 2024 Sunday, Dec 8th 11:00a to 4:00p Enter to win our 50/50 cash raffle. Winner will be drawn at the end of the Sisterhood Bazaar on Sunday, December 8. You do not have to be present to win.
Hanukkah Bazaar and Food Festival Sunday, Dec 8th 11:00a to 4:00p The OVS Sisterhood Hanukkah Bazaar & Food Festival will feature food, shopping and lots of games and activities for children.
Comedy Night FunRaiser Motzei Shabbat, Dec 14th 7:30p to 10:30p Join us for a fun night of comedy featuring our very own Louis Galanti & Lily Maslia providing opening comedy sets for Atlanta legend Jerry Farber. All proceeds to benefit OVS.
Annual General Membership Meeting Sunday, Dec 15th 10:00a to 11:30a The meeting this year is being offered in person and on Zoom. We need a quorum to vote at the Meeting. Please make every effort to attend.
