People who know me well know I’m partial to symmetry. I like when things are in order and when they’re balanced. Some call this a bit annoying. I refer to it as something extra special. Many people who see the world as I do like to have a “B” to each “A.” They like to have everything in pairs just like I do. Our holidays come in pairs: Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, Sukkot and Shemini Atzeret, Hanukkah and Purim, Passover and Shavuot. Each pair of holidays tells a deeper story and greater narrative than any of the holidays by themselves. We celebrate the New Year and then begin to look back and ahead at how we can change to be better. We celebrate the cycle of nature with Sukkot and then the cycle of the Torah with Shemini Atzeret. On Hanukah we commemorate our near destruction at the hands of ourselves and an external enemy and on Purim we focus on the human story of overcoming an eternal external foe. Passover and Shavuot tell the story of our complete history and identity. On Passover we celebrate our redemption and our freedom and on Shavuot we celebrate our covenant and our relationship with the Divine.
We left Egypt to come to Mt. Sinai and stand in relationship with God through our acceptance of the Torah. This incredible relationship between Passover and Shavuot is discovered in this week’s פרשה/Parsha: אמור/Emor when it describes the obligation to count seven sets of seven days from the second night of Passover until we reach the 49th day. The next day, the “50th” is the designated day of the holiday of Shavuot and thus the celebration of the giving of the Torah. Each year as we count, as we are commanded to do this week in אמור, we recall the connectedness of these two celebrations.
The connection is important and shouldn’t be lost on any of us. At Passover Seders, we read and sing the words of “Dayenu”. Those words state “Had God brought us out of Egypt and had not brought judgement upon (the Egyptians) it would have been enough”. As the reading continues, it says “Had God given us Shabbat and not brought us to Mt. Sinai it would have been enough. Had God brought us to Mt. Sinai and had not given us the Torah it would have been enough. Had God given us the Torah and not brought us to the Land of Israel it would have been enough…” The list goes on and on, and in reality, we need to be grateful enough to recognize the true power of “Dayenu” and that we have to be satisfied with what we have. At the same time, we don’t live in a world where God took us out of Egypt and didn’t bring us to Sinai, didn’t give us the Torah, and didn’t bring us to Israel. We live in a world where we received all those things, which are all necessary and all connected. We can’t say something would’ve been “enough” because we don’t know what our world would’ve looked like if we hadn’t received them.
As we navigate the Omer period to the celebration of the giving of the Torah at Mt. Sinai, we must see that our freedom, received when we left Egypt, was a freedom to be in a relationship with God and with our people through the Torah. The freedom isn’t absolute. It’s about our ability to share in the sacred and great relationship with God. As I’m writing these words, it’s the 23rd day of the Omer and we’ll count the next one tonight. This means we’re left with 26 more days to prepare ourselves to grow in our relationship with Torah and with God.
Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Hearshen
Candlelighting time on May 17 is 8:15 pm.
BIRTHDAYS
Sunday Ally Habif Levi Durham Ronald Galanti
Monday Blanchette Ichay Jake Sobel
Tuesday Edward Silver Eric Gabbai Jonathan Arogeti Leah Koch
Wednesday Corrine Rousso
Thursday Jeffrey Cohen Robyn Ross
Friday Lisa Galanti Rabinowitz
ANNIVERSARIES Sunday David and Ruth Falkenstein
Monday Steven and Delilah Cohen
Tuesday Josh and Brittany Kalson
Thursday David and Sharon Apseloff Jonathan R. and Sarah Benator
Friday Elad and Laura Levy
Meldados
Shabbat Eugene Abraham Weinberg Felix Solomon Schinazi
Shabbat Together Shabbat, Apr 12th 10:30a to 11:30a Join us for our new Kavanagh Minyan & Children's Services the second Saturday each month. Following these services, we'll join the group in the Sanctuary for Rabbi Hearshen's sermon followed by Kiddush lunch.
It’s as easy as:
Inviting your friends and family for Shabbat Dinner, Taking a few photos, Sharing the photos with OVS & One Table And... Receiving a stipend for each person at your dinner.
Passover Picnic & a Walk in the Park Tuesday, Apr 15th 11:30a to 1:00p Bring your own picnic lunch and catch up your OVS friends. Join us for a walk along the boardwalk after we eat.
Exact location will be emailed prior to the picnic. Free of charge.
Sephardic Dinner to Go Thursday, May 8th 2:00p to 4:00p Dinner To Go includes 1 dozen burekas (potato, spinach or rice, while supplies last), 1 quart Avas (tomato based white bean soup), 1 quart rice, tossed garden salad and 6 biscochos. Pre-orders only by Monday, May 5.
Building Blocks Sunday School 2025-2026 Sunday, Aug 17th 9:00a to 12:00p Building Blocks Sunday School at Congregation Or VeShalom is for children ages 2 - 12. Areas of focus include prayer, Jewish holidays, Jewish values, modern Hebrew, Hebrew reading, Israel, and Sephardic Jewish culture.
